midnight thoughts

Have you ever found yourself struggling to say “no,” even when it feels like the right thing to do? Many people carry this hesitation into adulthood, and while it’s easy to attribute it to personality or fear of conflict, the root often lies much deeper—in the way we’re raised. In Indian households especially, saying “no” isn’t always treated as a personal boundary. It’s often seen as a challenge, an insult, or even a betrayal of respect. This cultural and parental conditioning makes it particularly difficult for children to assert themselves, leaving a lasting impact on their confidence and relationships. Why “No” Feels Like Rebellion In many Indian families, obedience is considered the highest form of respect. Parents, often unintentionally, see their authority as absolute, and when a child refuses—whether it’s declining food, expressing discomfort, or questioning a decision—it’s perceived as disrespectful. For example, if a parent offers you food and you’re not hungry, a simpl...

Life is like a grand Netflix series; we’re all the main characters. But unlike scripted shows, our series is messy, unpredictable, and—let’s admit it—sometimes a little self-destructive. From creating art and love to starting wars and destroying nature, humans are walking contradictions. We each play our part, and yet, we’re all caught in a larger story—one we’re both writing and erasing simultaneously. But the real question is: will this story end in triumph or tragedy? Let’s dive into the chaos we call existence and see if we can change the course of our series. The Rollercoaster of Human Nature: We Build, We Break, We Repeat Humans are incredible. We’ve built towering cities, painted masterpieces, invented groundbreaking technology, and even ventured into space. Yet, we’re also the ones who wage wars, pollute the earth, and let greed divide us. It’s like we’re stuck in a loop: One step forward, two steps back. We create beauty but often doubt our own worth. We dream big but let fear...